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If you ask someone to identify themselves by role, there are all kinds of hybrid combinations you might hear in reply.
They are naturally magnetic to those who encounter them. They usually have something special about them that makes them stand out from the crowd; they are wild, they are brave, they are unbound and they are often times unpredictable. Untethered by anything or anyone, they are the perfect package for a man or woman who is looking for a partner that is fun, self-reliant, determined and passionate.
Yet alpha women do not tend to settle down easily nor do they settle for just anyone. But what actually turns an alpha woman on — and captures her attention long-term? Here are seven ways you can turn an alpha woman on — without even touching her:. Alpha women do not put up with bullshit. They simply do not have the time to analyze mixed messages or become fluent in your hot and cold behavior.
When you respect her, this means you respect her time, her efforts and you reciprocate them with consistency. Make time for her, just as she makes time for you. Be honest. Be helpful.
Be open to feedback. Treat her well and you will be treated well in return. A partner whose words and actions match and whose character speaks to his integrity, is someone an alpha woman will always be drawn closer to. In a society where women are routinely pitted against each other and objectified by appearance, it is refreshing to see a man who honors the inherent assets an alpha woman possesses, the internal qualities that make her truly unique and special.
Just knowing that you cherish her gifts and her ambitions is one of the hottest ways you can get her to think about you nonstop. And who knows?
If all goes well, you two might make a great power couple some day. A man who can find the sweet spot between witty banter and sarcasm is the perfect match for an alpha woman.
This type of feisty woman loves exercising her intellect and being creative. She loves teasing her partner and having him tease her back. The trick is to do so playfully. Know your limits. Women are usually gaslighted by society and their partners with regards to their emotions, yet expected to do a lot of the emotional labor in relationships as caretakers. A partner who truly validates a woman and can acknowledge her perspective without necessarily agreeing with her all the time is thus incredibly sexy because it goes against the usual script of what masculinity is stereotyped to entail.
Listen to her feelings.
Learn why she is upset. And find a way to connect and empathize with this.
Give her the sex she wants, not the sex you want.
It means you actually value her and care about her safety. She will appreciate that to no end. This works the other way, too.
They love being in charge. When they meet a man who finally treats them like an equal, they still have a tendency to try to take back control and sometimes even one-up their partner.
This assertiveness is probably what drew you to them in the first place. The best solution? Make her feel emotionally safe to express her desires.
Alpha women are used to meeting men who mask their emotions and hide their true feelings under the guise of hyper-masculinity. But with this type of woman, being a little more sentimental can help balance out her more seemingly stoic attitude. A peek into your vulnerable side will encourage her to open up as well. Find ways to tell her how much she means to you and how lucky you feel to have her in your life.
This emotional intimacy is both refreshing and mind blowing for an alpha woman to experience — and it can create an intense bond between the two of you that transcends beyond just the physical.
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Respect her and her time. Show a genuine admiration for her talents, dreams and goals.
Banter with her in a way that builds rapport rather than tears her down. Find ways to emotionally validate her.
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