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There are fundamental differences in outlook and behaviour between the two.

They will give orders and enjoy being in control of others, but it is focused in the bedroom not throughout the day. It is a short term contract that is typically devoid of true submission. It is done to achieve an effect, not a lasting relationship.

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You submit, but do not give up your will. This is power play, not power exchange.

It is the exploration of a power differential, not a power exchange. A Dom will negotiate so you submit on the short term, and may try to coerce you into submission, to try to take your power, not have you fully submit and offer it. You will only submit when you choose, and you will talk over what is allowed and what is not. You will follow some rules, but often in the bedroom only. Once out of the bedroom there is still a Dominance and submissive feeling, but not as noticeable as it was during play.

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With a Dom, you submit sequentially and can dictate what happens within each scene. A Dom tends to be a little harsher in his commands and style, but still focused on wrestling control from you. MASTERs are wired to take control, and extend that control to as wide a sphere over your life as they are able. MASTERs see their submissives as owned property and will exert control over most details of your life.

A MASTERs will formally bond with his submissive, and will seek to explore your boundaries and push them for their own pleasure.

There is a dynamic between the two of your that goes beyond the scene. The MASTER will want you to surrender of your own choiceto continue bonding by having you serve them for their pleasure.

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You will feel the need to submit, and that feeling will continue throughout the day. That power exchange remains, even between sexual action, and there is a continued service that develops over time. When the scene is over, the dynamic is not only still in place, it is reinforced.

Both of these titles, and outlook on service, are independent of their skill. This is a mind set, not a .

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A "dom" or a "master" who is abusive, is an asshole. There is NO reason for you to stay, no reason for you to continue, they are neither DOMS, nor MASTERS, they are simply small inferior people who fantasize about being dominant and having power, but have no idea how to hold, manage or yield true power.

Only bad things comes from people who are only in their head thinking they are superior and that you are to be treated in an abusive manner.

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